I have had two vivid dreams with T in them. The first involved me as a minor; she was doing fun things with me. Then, I was the age I am now and we slept together. I was horrified by this.

The second one was strange. My H and I decided to renew our vows. T came to the ceremony. In the receiving line, she told me how proud of me she was and that I was doing the right thing.

However, both of these are dreams. They are not based in reality. I have not told her about them and don't plan to. They can be disturbing, but when I find myself bothered by them, I tell myself they are not real.