I don't think what you guys are doing is wrong at all.Now if he was just calling you up for a hook up i'd tell you to really think about it, but in the end if you are okay with your situation that is all that matters.You are living your life and noone else is.You and him are both content with how things are and that's great.That kind of friend is difficult to find and the fact that he calls you and you guys hang out there has to be feelings there on both parts, but a title in't needed and i'm slowly figuring this out.Enjoy the time you guys have together.

I am going out with this wonderful guy and have been for a little over a month.I see noone else and neither does he (from what he says), but at first when he said he didn't want a relationship or think he was capable of having a successful one I took offense to it, but it's so soon for us to be having those conversations and all I really know is that I like him and we have a great time together.He treats me well.I do not want to jump into anything so I asked him to not get into those serious conversations just yet.I told him to relax and just have fun.Who knows what the future holds.There's no point to analyzing something because if it's meant to be it will be.Things are fine.I'm content and so is he.At least I hope.He seems to be a great communicator from what I can see.Hard to find in a man.
Advice to both of us....lets just enjoy what we have with these men.