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Originally Posted by faith1983
I'm sorry you have to go through that... it's certainly confusing!
And MT is the only one responsible for what happenned; he is the "bad" one IMO, not your current t; current t perhaps didn't even know what was really going on with MT at the time or thought (rightly or not) that telling you would make things worst... That being said, I know how hard those feeling are and hope you're going to find a way out of this and, like you said, find the courage to discuss it with your t...
Take care  |
Agreed, MT is the one responsible for what happened however, T knew it at the time and made a choice. T knew my past. He knew I was wrongly terminated by T#1, he knew I was shocked when MT sent the email. He also knew how much I desired (based on my previous T experience) to process with MT and get closure and he said NOTHING.
He asked me what I had hoped he would do? Before I answered, he said he was very limited in his ability to do anything because he was a colleague and not, MT's boss. I never answered his question because we began discussing my anger. Later, I sent T an email. In it I said I guess I had originally hoped he would protect me from being hurt by another T then I realized I didn't need him to protect me, I needed him to be honest with me.
For the past year, we worked together to build a foundation based on truth. IMO, his actions here belied his own words.