SO right on! I was at a party once "up north" with my first husband where he told me to quit talking to the men and go talk with the women, because otherwise I might get my butt kicked by somebody thinking I was trying to steal her man. I was like, seriously? These are your friends? This is the worst party ever! If we weren't married, I would break up with you right now! Or at least once we got back home. Yeah. That's why we (I) need to see a T to teach me I AM lovable, to set that first mathematical assumption, that got messed up before. Cause you can't build on a bad first assumption. See, everything IS maths.