Um, I know you're not going to like this. Feel free to ignore the fact that I've said anything at all. Last week I had a discussion w/T where he pointed out a specific behavior of mine that indicated, despite my reluctance and horror, that I am indeed at least slightly attached to him. The crappy part is that he was right. You can't pay me to tell him that out loud though. Heck, I won't even tell you guys what the behavior was. I think I'm at least minorly attached, even though I don't pay any attention to it, don't want it, and find the whole thing MAJORLY annoying, not to mention wrong and gross, and I could go on for days ....

That said, stopdog, I don't believe either you or I will be posting an "OMG I NEED TO MOVE IN WITH T AND BE TOGETHER FOREVER" thread anytime soon. (And I'm honestly not trying to make fun of anyone here, other than myself... and stopdog if she's cool with it. )

Do you normally handle schedule changes well? Maybe you're just startled and trying to adjust to the change.