Okay- so my husband has been diagnosed as BPD. We have been together 13 years but only spouses for a year. He has had counselling since the second year that I knew him but a ton of behaviours won't stop, or even slow down. The police can't stop it-psychiatrists, doctors, etc keep trying but can't slow it down enough for me to get away. He tried suicide, his landlord called him in,( when we were broken up)- He has broken my bones, stalked me, threatened me and all the charges have been to no avail. He was to be committed a year and a half ago but there was no room for him (welcome to health care in my part of the world) so they released him. His Dr, the police checked on me every hour on the hour because they were afraid of what he might do. It is ridiculous-he is getting worse instead of better- Can you think of a way, other than for me to go into hiding & change my name..to get away?