hmmmm... im no expert
but it sounds like he is controlling,

possibly because he has been hurt by a past relationship with a different girl.
who is nothing like you. (or how you decribe yourself to be)

this isn't something you can change, but if you want to understand it more,
try asking him why he treats you in ways you do not like.

i have gone through a similar issue with my ex..
and i tryed everything to change his actions.. it did not help
edventually i got sick of it, and left him.

idk if i helped, but thats all i got here