I've also learned over time that if I do the cancelling, then I'm in control and when my therapist does the cancelling or re scheduling, she's in control (in my distorted mind that is). AND I have a tendency to hate not being the one doing the rejecting . . . even though she isn't really rejecting me . . . again my warped way of looking at things. Sorry your therapist had to cancel, stopdog, but the interesting side of this is look at how interesting all of this is going to be for you to pick apart and analzye!