Umm - why is it all about you? I know, funny question to ask. But why don't you care about your T's feelings? He asked about your job, he got it kind of wrong, and all you did was jump down his throat about how he is not remembering and reflecting you perfectly - but why DID he get it wrong? Isn't this a fairly new r/s? (And weren't we going to talk about our two mutual friends?) If work IS going so well, then we don't dwell on it much, it certainly isn't worth criticizing T for - why would you yell at T about a happy part of your life? How can that help him make it better? I could accept yelling at T for a cruddy part of your life, but this might be hard for a T to understand? Thinking out loud here - it didn't sound like you were trying to share credit with him for your success. So what was/is going on? I can't figure this out, except a certain sexual occurrence comes to mind (not trying to be coarse, not sure how it's related!). Hope I didn't offend, i'm just puzzled by what's going on, as it seems you are also.