I can definately relate. I love all of my children dearly, but it seems we have more issues now than we ever did while they were growing up. They are all wonderful human beings, but can be so thoughtless sometimes, they were not raised that way. I am sorry to the the bearer or bad news, but it has been my experience that as they get older it gets worse. (My daughter is livinging in a beautiful house in the worst part of the town she lives in. It was so inexpensive because it is the worst part of town. I cannot stand the woman my youngest son plans to marry. These are life changing issues).

Having said that, it sounds like he's been going through a lot of changes. It is difficult for a mature adult to deal with these changes, as a hormonal teen it is nearly impossible. Acting out is a way to ensure he gets your attention.

I would also offer this gentle reminder. You are his mother and it is highly unlikely that he will ever think anyone is good enough for you. But remember you are bringing these people into his life without and this is beyond his control, that is very frustrating for him. Also, any violently negative reaction by my children would give me pause. I'm a middle aged adult and I honestly believe I would take issue with my mother bringing a man I do not care for into my life.

Now I'm not saying that your teenage child should control your social life, but I would sit him down and explain that you're willing to listen to his opinions on the matter if he is willing to discuss them in a respectful fashion. Teach him communication. Good Luck!