I always fund the guy that needs to be fixed or is psycho or needs his feelings babysat. I can't do it anymore. I have enough of my own issues I can't take on a myriad of someone elses issues. My most recent beau fell in love with me in 2 weeks and come to find out is completely in outer space and needy. He wants to spend every spare minute with me and is so fragile if I don't call him right back he thins I want to break up with him. Well I did. Like I said I don't babysit mens feelings like that.