You Oughta Know is actually a woman telling her exboyfriend who dumped her for another woman how much it has hurt her and how unfair she thinks it is for him to expect her to be ok with it. It is totally heart wrenching the way she expresses her pain. An even more sad song is at the very end of her Jagged Little Pill cd. Its title isn't even on the cover. It is about her going to her lovers apartment while he isn't there. She spends the afternoon just soaking in his essense, taking a bath and walking around. Then she finds a note written to him from another woman. Oh man it just grabs hold of ones heart and gives it a twist.

You sound like me not to long ago. Your whole rant could have been taken out of my journal. I hope things will improve for you. I was lucky in the fact that my hubby was more then willing to go to therapy with me and when anything comes up in my session with Dan I know that hubby will meet with me in session with Emily. It was me who was reluctant to go into therapy with him. I didn't want to let go of my anger. I didn't want them to take away the right to what I felt. It was Dan's persistance that I HAD to go into marrital therapy if I was going to get any better that actually got me in therapy with my husband. I wish I could say it was my idea but it wasn't. Sigh.
Zen

<font color=green>You live, you learn. You love, you learn. You cry, you learn. You lose, you learn. You bleed, you learn. You scream, you learn.--Alanis Morissette