My boyfriend and I were together for almost 3 years when I broke up with him. I basically gave him an ultimatum of marrying me or I was leaving. So I left. We were only apart for about 5 months, but we talked all the time and still said we loved and missed each other. So we made love in Oct. and now I just found out that he had sex with someone in Dec. now she may be pregnant. And to top it all off, he wants to get married too. I'm so confused and I don't want to talk to my mom about it, because I don't want her to think he's just horrible before I decided what I want to do.

I'm 28 and my mom is best friend, he also talks to her quite often. And apparently they have been talking about the proposal and so that makes me very hesitant to tell her about this. I did, however, tell her he had sex with someone else. She said I should follow my heart because people make mistakes...blah blah blah... we weren't technically together... But I'm also hesitant because he had sex with her after me. That makes me wonder if he was seeing her all along. Anywhu, he said she wont have an abortion because it's against her religion... where was her religion when she was getting her freak on??? (guess I shouldn't judge)

Also, he has a 5 year old by another woman, but that was long before me. Just a little background. I just feel like I should walk away, but I love him so much. I'm like crying every day and I just went back to grad school and this is just a lot. My main question is what should I take into consideration when deciding if I want to marry him because according to my mom he is ready to propose like today!? And if she is pregnant should I walk away?

Thanks in advance!