Ya...the first time was hard for me too. That's why I gave it a red lable. Be good with you, and just watch out for the Narcissit. It's hard when you do things without "knowing" you do them. Makes you want to give her a hard poke!!! But it makes you look at yourself...and gives you answers to why you do the things you do. That's the best I can explain it. I brought it up cause of Beana77 issues right now with that guy she was friends with. Not to tick people off.