I agree completely with JLarissaDragon. This is a big Red Flag. Don't set yourself up for a world of hurt... I've been in a similar situation before. Trust me it's better to end it now while you're not completely in over your head then to let this go on for years. It's only been 3 months.. if the issue isn't fixed what will 3 years look like?;In the same breath however.. Take care of your kid and try to work it out for your child.