Is this a gender identity question or is it rooted in your self esteem?? I saw one of your other posts, where you said you don't wear typical makeup teenagers wear. Imagine these fluctuating moods like a 'roller coaster' - your moods going up and down on the roller coaster ride. When you feel it starting, ask yourself - what's the real root, of these self deprecating statements.

As I tried to say before - the real assurance needs to come from you and our assurance won't last long. The world is made up of many different people, so embrace your uniqueness and accent your positive points. How about you list some good things about yourself. You probably wouldn't bash anyone else like this, so don't do it to yourself.