<font color="purple">Hi (((((everyone))))) who is having trouble working out what boundaries are.
We had trouble with this ourselves, & we'd like to offer some song lyrics that helped us understand.

Please don't let this frighten your littles,</font>

"Let me draw the jungle line --
I won't cross yours if you don't cross mine.
Won't make trouble, I don't need no fuss.
But I'm wounded, old & I'm treacherous."

<font color="purple">I would like to change that last word, because I'm not treacherous, but it's a quote & I can't just change it to suit myself.
The thing about drawing the line is essential, & you all have that right, to draw the line yourself.</font>