if i were talking to my friend, in my truck, and pulled up to my house. i'd stay in the truck, with music, rather than come into my house. i would be greeted, in the backyard, by four cats.....tripping me up...my light quit working back there.......then teddy jack would start barking to be let out of his yard so he could go into the house with me.....when i would opened my door, 16 legs (cats) would try to beat me into kitchen.....then fayeroe (55 lbs) and lita (jack russel terrier) would greet me.........so, i'm on his side and i totally agree with the above posters.

that is....if he's single. are you worried that there is someone in the house that he doesn't want to know that he's met you? can you check on his "single" status?????

i met a man 5 years ago, online, on a literary message board. poetry and such. i'm moving to Texas and he's transferring to either a Texas town or New Orleans. these things can work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! woooooooooooooooohoooooooooooooooooooooooooo. so, i'd be very optimistic and very careful. hope this helps. xoxoxo pat