Erin Bear -

When I was going through a particular situation, a friend recommended a therapist who specialized with adopted parents, who had been abused by their children. Anyway, I called the therapist first, and asked to speak to her over the phone first. I was able to confirm that she would be supportive to me at that critical time, and saw her for about a month.

Bipolar Bear's suggestion is good too.

Hugs,
EJ