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Originally Posted by WikidPissah
He isn't insensitive per say...just sticks his foot in his mouth a lot. And I hang on every word. I am always trying to read between the lines. Sometimes he's really good, other times he says stupid things. Confusing.
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Mine does that too; her mouth opens and just about anything can come out. I read between the lines also and she told me to stop in no uncertain terms. It took me awhile, but I have. She wants me to think critically about what she says, but not read into or make assumptions about what she's saying. You are giving your T a lot of power by hanging onto every word. My T wants me to challenge her at times. It is rather refreshing. She wants me to be my own person, and dammit, that's who I'm gonna be.
