Thank you both for the insight. He has cheated before unfortunately. Ive talked to him about counseling and also about meeting the girl because I figure if I'm going to be in his life then I'll in hers so we all need to get to know one another. He's upset because I asked for a prenuptial IF I chose to marry him. But I have to protect myself and my money right? I'll be a lawyer soon and I don't know what kind of money I will make. And he's also trying to act like the victim. It's like a mind game at this point. I'm annoyed!