Its a toughie because the T's feelings aren't supposed to come into it (from what I've read).

But to think realistically - does your T have a lot of clients? Could she be burnt out with her caseload at the moment? It might not even have anything to do with you - maybe she's just having a tough time with some other clients - sort of having one of those months where everything goes wrong? Cuz it happens now and again. And if you are hypersensitive, then you are going to pick up on this quickly!!

I'm just thinking back to before my breakdown when I used to work in drug and alcohol. Every so often there would be a month where 5-6 clients would just relapse out of the blue, all separately - it was just bad luck really. "one of those months" we used to call it. And so some workers would get stressed because now we have the fallout from these relapses (we had a special unit for the intoxicated clients, and so we suddenly had 5-6 people coming down from the drugs, causing havoc and destruction in there, waiting for a spot to open in the detox section). So i can see how the stress of the worker could be construed as something different by the other clients. The worker was stressed in general from this whole saga, NOT stressed at the other clients.

I'm not sure if what I'm saying makes any sense but I thought I would present to you an "outside the box" way of describing it, lol.

PS: you should have seen that intoxicated persons unit after they went off to detox. omg. Looked like world war 3 had happened in there!!

thank you so m