hhhmmmm.......well I'm one of those husbands!
meds or not, I think a wife has to learn there are certain things that will not change in her ADD spouse....but are they really so bad?
I'm not the neatest person and truly foget to do things a lot, but I'm loving and faithful, a good father and provider.
life's a balance....in all respects, whether it involves add or not.
try and see the good in your spouse.