Wow - thanks again to you all. I hope I responded to everyone. If I missed someone, I'm sorry.
You all are great. Very supportive, with your hugs, wishes, and offers of talking in PM.
This week is going to be pretty busy. Besides' mom's appointment, I have my opthamalogist appointment this week too (to see how my eyes are doing, if more surgery is needed, etc.), dad's birthday, and of course, mother's day on sunday. phew. I got some shopping to do. sigh