...I guess it's pretty simple....with borderline personality a client feels very very fortunate to have even the slightest attention of the medical kind...which is needed quite often, and unfortunately....

therefore a borderline person often finds themselves in the position of avoiding abandonment at all costs and the nature of T appoinments makes it very hard to trust...

so there is alot of people pleasing going on just to maintain the connection...it's the same in relationships...but omg

it's hard