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Old Jan 21, 2012, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
Why would you do that? Therapy isn't about the T, it is about you. T's know it takes a long time to "get it"; I was in therapy 9 years each time with my T (with 9 years inbetween); started seeing her in 1977 and didn't "get it" until 2003! As that really obnoxious commercial says, "It's your money!"
I might be wrong (sorry dubblemonkey if I am completely off-base), but it appears that dm enjoys the challenge of making therapy a game. It seems that dm wants to prove that he has the ins and outs of therapy mastered so well that he can completely manipulate the sessions...again, it's just what I'm "reading into" dubblemonkey's posts; however, I have realized he likes a good game and a mental challenge.

Okay, dubblemonkey, here's the lecture part-when you are ready to get something else out of therapy, it's up to you to really invest yourself, the real you, in the sessions!

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