I love this forum because my Cinderella's glass slipper is, if I could just meet someone where we didn't both think the other person was an idiot after 15 minutes, I would marry him or her (getting less fussy in my old age). Usually I don't get anywhere NEAR that fifteen minutes, right, it's the first 2 or 3, and you're like, NEXT! But this place is just stuffed wall to wall with people who I STILL like talking to or hearing from or whatever it is you call what we do - who still surprise me and delight me and educate me and interest me and just make me happy to share their life with them every day, even when we're sad. There probably is some kind of unconscious self-screening process going on - whatever it is, I like it, I like us, I like me, is the end result.