Loved that article. I am the passive one....but when I've had enugh....I go bizerk, and bring up every offence in one sitting...ooops! I've been working on that in therapy, and almost have it down..but that artcle was really direct and to the point, and made it even clearer because it brings up how the other person might or must feel when I tell like a crazy person, and don't tell and get walked on...tricky stuff these boundry things are...they should teach them in school I THINK!!