I just lost my T, too. I had decided to stop therapy when he left, but it's only been a couple of weeks and I am questioning my decision! I couldn't have gotten a referral if I wanted to, as I am now stuck in a different state. I dunno what to do. I don't plan to stay here, so I don't want to jump in with somebody new just to have to pick up and leave again -- but if I don't find somebody to talk to outside of this house, I'm going to lose it in a hurry!
Hang in there, KD and Erin. It's tough, but it can be done. I don't envy either of you, though. When my T told me he was leaving, I burst into tears on the spot and then went home and cried all weekend!
Candy