Hi everyone I'm new to this forum. I myself have been diagnosed with OCD stemming from anxiety and depression. But my real big issue in my relationship is my partners children's mothers. I know one of them has been diagnosed with bipolar.

But my biggest issue is that I want children right now. And they bother me do much because he was able to have the boys with them but he cannot fathom having one with myself ATM.

I see this as unfair and disrespectful to myself as I'm constantly caring for the boys either with him around or not.

I don't wish they weren't around. Because I love them dearly. But I am constantly concerned with their mothers and my partners relationship.(the past)

I have been told that I hold onto things too tightly. And that I need to try to distract myself. But every time I try my feelings just get worse.

I want nothing more than to have my own children, but his pasties holding us back. And seems to be stemming most of my issues.

I'm just wondering if anyone else is either in the same kind of situation. Or has any pointers

Kind regards