i have been with my t for like 4 years...i know a lot about her but probably if i saw her while i was wandering in tar-jay i would drift right past her...she would be out of context...

the funny part is that she sees me everywhere..tells me she saw me driving, shopping etc...my van is very noticeable...

i do make an attempt to not go into the stores we both frequent on the times she would shop..because i feel she deserves a life ...i have all the time in the world to shop since i don't work...her time is limited. i figure it is the least i can do. she laughed & said that was nice but not needed...

still i told her if she wanted to say hi to me she could & that if i did see her i would say hi to her but like i said..i never seem to notice her...so i guess i am failing on my side of the deal.