My guess is my mom won't agree, but I'd never know if I didn't try...but that's the hard part, trying to find the courage to bring it up and ask about it...

I didn't mean to come off that way, but I do want suggestions. I guess I just wanted to make sure you understood where I was coming from. Not many people do...I don't mean to be uncooperative. I do want to change, believe it or not, it's just that it's been this way for so long that I don't know where the first step should be...

Thank you for replying again.

JustDontAsk