(((((unhappyguy))))))

It is important to keep in mind when you feel this way that these people that invade "your space" also do the same to others. The truth is, THERE ARE DISRESPECTUL SELFISH HUMAN BEINGS. Yes, we can be effected by them and it can be very upsetting. However, what I have learned by taking time to truely face the triggers that upset me, even cripple me, is that I have to LEARN how to grow past the way it upsets me.

unhappyguy, I have really been working at understanding this disorder. It really is a challenge and though it does cripple me, even leaves me with terrible thoughts about myself, feeling like I am a failure. I have come to a point where looking back the truth is, I truely didn't learn "HOW" to stand up and speak up for myself.

Yes, I have every reason to be angry and I still am, because what changed my life and everything about my life, came from someone's neglegence. And when I do experience these various "triggers" what I am learning is that what they signify are times in my life where I honestly didn't "KNOW" how to respond effectively and protect myself. However, I am truely not alone in experiencing this, you and countless others experience the same struggles.

So what are we going to do? What can we do? All we can do is understand where we did not stand up, often that we were not able to stand up, but know we can LEARN how to progress IN SPITE OF OUR FAILURES IN OUR PAST. Your a good man unhappyguy, and so are many others here. No matter "HOW OLD WE ARE" we "DESERVE" the right to "LEARN' how to progress in spite of the people in this world that are preditors to all those they come in contact with.

(((((HUGS)))))
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