im going to say sorry now if i start to rant, but i feel i must write down in words what is going on here at the moment,
about 10 days ago my son decided to go into a shop a pinch some chocolate, he was caught and fined £80, my son is 20years old but has ADHD and doesnt think before he does things.
while he was in the police station his girl friend decided to make a statement about how my son is violent towards her. so when son was released on the thieft charge, his girl friend went off with a police officer to make a statement. the police officer told us to look after son untill his girl friend had done this.
about 2 hours later my son was getting worried , so i went with him to the police station to see if his girl friend had finished so son could go home.(as he lives with his girl friend)
we gont there and a police woman came and took us into a room, where his girl friend was sitting, in this meeting her story changed twice and the police woman suggested they should break up for both of there safety, which they both agreed . but the moment they got outside they both said were not breaking up.
this had been a waste of everyones time and they went home together.

all was quiet for about 2 days and then we had a text message saying son had kicked off again and that his girl friend was scared , we rang son and he was sounding very angry , saying his girl friend was cheating on him with one of her friends, and that she had told him she had feelings for this friend.
my son was arrested and taken to a police station about 20 miles away.
the following day we went over to get him out of the police station., the police charged him with criminal damage as he had stabbed a wall with a knife. they advised him to break up with girl friend, which he said he would. we took him home to our place, all the way home his girl friend was texting us saying she loved him and wanted him to go back to her, he was at our place for about 10 minutes and he ran back to her.

then today we were out at a friends house and we got a text saying son had to give a statement to the police for the things he does at night !! so we raced to son to find out what was going on, picking son and his girl friend up , son was very worried and was close to crying, we got to the police station and the woman who came out to see us said she couldnt take his statement today and she would ring him next week sometime. his girl friend had told the police woman that son was living home with us, so we put them right on that one.
his girl friend had told the police that son would try to have sex with her while she was sleeping. this is a serious thing to say.
its not the first time she has said such things on other boy friends and even her father.

here is the rant.... i know my son is a pain in the ***, he doesnt think before he does things im not making excuses for him , he has ADHD and i know that isnt a excuse either. but his girl friend is a gamer !! but the game piece is my son. she pushes my sons buttons.
at the moment im feeling sick because i know she has done this before and i dont think my son is strong enough to deal with her shite.
thank you for letting me rant