That seems like the issue to me too. For me, hearing t say something like that and not getting the resolution I need once I've struggled to bring it up would make it feel pretty hopeless. But for most the people posting on this thread it seemed like they weren't even sure mcl had done what they would consider trying to discuss it yet. So if a lot of people understand it that way, maybe they don't attribute as much significance to mcl's effort to talk about it as she would or as I would, and maybe the t didn't get it either.


It seems to me like mcl is very aware that only she can decide. I want to suggest for her to give it some more times with her t.