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Old Jan 23, 2012, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by therealme View Post
here is the rant.... i know my son is a pain in the ***, he doesnt think before he does things im not making excuses for him , he has ADHD and i know that isnt a excuse either. but his girl friend is a gamer !! but the game piece is my son. she pushes my sons buttons.
And your son sticks around, knowing you will step in and bail him out. Quit doing that; let him make his own decisions (and stick to them or don't). If he's living with a girl, he and the girl have to work out their differences and he has to figure out how to cope with living with someone. When he gets married, you going to be running down to bail him out then? How is he supposed to learn from his mistakes or to think before he acts?
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