Thanks for the replys guys - its nice to know you care!

Your both right - it is a tough situation with no clear solutions. The 6 month therapy programme isn't really specific for any disorder, and after going through an assessment for it i didn't really find it intensive enough. On the other hand i agree its not right for someone with my disorder to keep being hospitalised, ive read the stats and i agree it can feed into a certain mind set etc. Im desperate for some form of DBT related treatment though, im a severe self harmer and have real problems with relationships and impulsivity etc. I agree also that its silly not to just give me the right treatment to begin with - the amount of money their wasting by passing me from here to there must be ridiculous. *Sigh* Im just gunna have to ask my mum and hopefully if i broach the subject calmly enough she'll be more receptive to wanting to talk about. I have a big meeting with everyone involved in my care on the 30th, so ill keep u guys updated. Thanks for the advice once again though xx