This is something that I've noticed in my family and marriage. When I'm having problems, it's like they treat me with kid gloves. They don't want to tell me anything upsetting or worry me in any way. They tell me to get more sleep, eat better, rest, etc.

When I'm doing well--like now--suddenly I'm the "strong one". I'm the one who can take everything on. I'm the one my parents come to about problems with my brother and life in general. My husband quits helping me out around the house and totally leaves everything up to me. If he's stressed out about money or whatever I have to be the strong one who isn't worried.

I'm not complaining--I just find it interesting. Anyone else notice this?