Well I wouldnt mind the baby treatment every now and then. I have been in a deep depression for a while now. I cant muster up the energy to take a shower right now and as i look around at all the meeses my teenage kids have made and all the laundry and dishes that are left for me i feel even worse. Its expected of me every day bc i cant work anymore but i just cant get up to do it. So i let them down quite often, they just dont understand i guess. My husband gets upset sometimes but i dont know what to do about it i just cant do it no matter how hard i try.