it hurts me and our children how he shuts us out, but most of all what his mother does to him.

yesterday he called her 3xs and 3xs she complained about him and his siblings. the 4th time he called her, she called him a piece of *****! his mother has a tongue of a 2 edged sword.

that's why i said to him you need to put your mother in her place. not to mention how she calls and as soon as my hubby answers his cell she hangs up on him. come on that's so dysfunctional.

i think its ok to come into an agreement to disagree with you about replacing your spouse, unless of course the spouse is abusive.

thanks for your advice, i am much calmer today.