i want to emphasize that i created this thread to talk, with PCers, about where i'm at and i thought it might help others to define their spots also. (like tomi....)i'm always grateful for any "nuggets" that someone gives me.

when i feel that the time is appropriate, i'll share what is going on with me. now is not the time.

this thread is not about anyone else asking for support for their problems. i fully support asking and getting!! xoxox pat