Talk to her man. It sounds like for her the issue isn't about sex at all. Maybe the distance has been affecting the way she sees you? Go into the conversation trying to fix things, but don't be surprised if the conversation throws you some things you don't want to hear. Take it in stride and again, try and fix things and bring your relationship to a place you're both comphortable working in.

As for wanting to be wanted, and touched, these are very human things. It's not a relationship if only one side wants the other, and it's not very fufiling if only one side touches the other.

Although I know all of the evil sides of the porn industry, it's not bad to look at porn. I do! Most people do. It's really not bad to masterbate every day either. Again, you're human. Once a day is really not that bad. Don't feel ashaimed and pathetic for any of that.

If you're worried about getting a bad rep for the kind of porn you're watching you could always check out feminist porn idk if you'd be into it, but it's pretty good, completely consenting and 'real', though not geared for men I'm sure you can still enjoy it!

Good luck, and remember that you're worth something, and deserve to have your needs met too.

KLove