I don't get the blank slate thing either, but I wonder if it depends on the type of thearpy that each T is used to using or patient is wanting. I now for me, I like the small personal things... makes him feel more real to me. Like, he can identify with me to some extent. I don't know a whole lot about my T, but we have only had 4 sessions together. However, he has used bits and peices of his life to help identify with me and I like that.
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