i don't really know much at all about my T i don't know if she is married or has any kids or anything although i do know Ware she lives but that is it.i don't think it bothers me much at all.i may be one of these people who doesn't want much information.like if i knew that she has never had any kids i may feel like she would never have any idea what it is like to be a mother of a 20 year old boy.etc...

i have also been on the other end of this situation .i have been very close to a few T i have had in the past and it was hugely problematic.when i was in one of the residential treatment programs i had a t that crossed a lot of boundaries and i think got herself in trouble do to it.i also ended up living with my councilor when i was in high school and that didn't have a good outcome either.in fact she was the one who had me committed to residential treatment.