I'm new here. Recently relapsed sobriety date is yesterday
Something that has helped me start over was a gentlemen telling me that I didn't fail because I drank or got high that I just hit a road bump in my recovery.

Previous to this I was sober for 50 days. 30 of it was spent in a hospital/and an inpatient rehab facility.

I just need to remember take it one day at a time.

Were I failed? I wasn't going to meetings. I was not doing the 90 meetings in 90 days. Am not truly convinced that I am an Alcoholic & Addict. I know now that I am. I couldn't resist temptation as everything was so nicely laid out for me.