I agree with Sannah. I like my T a lot. I know a little about my T, but not too much. She's mentioned her marriage problems very briefly a time or two- but only as it directly relates to mine. 50 minutes once a week isn't very long and it's the only time I have all week to address my flashbacks, my nightmares, my relationship problems. If we spent more than a minute or two on her issues, I would feel like I should be getting paid. I don't need her to be a blank slate, but I do need that short time out of the rest of my life to just focus on myself. That's what therapy is, I think.