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Old Jan 25, 2012, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
One of those therapist guys who writes books - it may be Yolam - wrote in a critical way about a client who did not ask him anything personal. It seemed to offend the therapist that the the client was not more curious about him.

That is interesting... On one had it makes me feel bad b/c I don't think I have asked my T many questions about personal things. Of course we have only had 4 appointments, so I am still feeling out what I feel is apropriate and feeling him out. However, on the other hand.. the person is going in to get help, and they may not want the personal stuff.. they just want to get help with their problem and that should be okay for the T, I think. Now, if the thearpy lasts for a good amout of time I could see how the T would be bothered by it.
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