I'm an anorexic for over 30 years and have been thru the possessive boyfriends. I have also done the geographic relocation. Just remember when u do that your still taking u with u. If your boyfriend cant trust or have faith in you after u had the courage to open up to him you may want to think if it's a health one. I've had to get out of relationships for just that reason. I'm still active in my disease and found someone to be open with and accepts it and trusts me which I know is hars but u have to b true to u. Know u have a friend online that believes in you and your not alone!