I agree with both Cbox & bb. Definitely a second opionion, but since I love to talk about me, I'll share even though mine's a bit different....

Anyway, I had the opposite experience in that my research on BP lead me to BPD & I felt like I related more to BPD. (I probably have both.) Anyway, my T, who didn't buy it at first, is starting to see what I am really like, as I have "quiet, high-functioning" BPD traits that have been well hidden. Oh, I dispaly confusing behavior to those who know me well, but I don't have the classic outward rage, suicidal tendencies. I have also been afraid to open up. & have been in major denial. For example, I look, act & talk like I have it together, but the slightest perception of rejection sends me places in my head that are quite troubling. I really appreciated when I read some of the stuff on the "you know you are BPD when you...." board.

Now, I do not wish this on anyone (BPD), wish we were all healthy with wonderful childhoods etc., but since this is not the case, I am glad I found a place to not feel so alone.

Not sure if this helps, but I guess I feel like it relates in that I too am concerned with getting the correct diagnosis, or not being given the wrong one.