[QUOTE=Queen.A;2206940]Here's how I ended up here...
I got married to my husband 2 years ago, and felt like the luckiest woman in the world.
He is a wonderful man and I love him so! When we met, he tells me about hearing voices and feeling a though someone else is inside of him. I really didn't give him a chance to talk much. I laughed and waved it off. He also tells me horrid tales about his parents (who live in the same city as us and are really sweet to us). He complains about co workers hating him and our neighbors conniving to harm us. I thought it was absurd!
He quit his job about 6 months ago and has been fighting everyone, accusing people of things they know nothing about. He slept at the police station overnight once. Due to his behavior, we argue all the time. Lately, he falsely accuses me of having an affair with all our neighbors (who he doesn't get along with). His parents have both asked me if I think he is okay. He feels people are out to get him/harm him all the time.
After talking to his mum-my mother inlaw, she mentioned he has gone through several mental tests in the U.K and was diagnosed with psychosis. He denies this and gets very aggressive when I talk about seeing a doctor. I'm at my loose ends with what to do as I am starting to fall into acute depression too. He smokes and won't give it up. My family spoke to him about his behavior a few months ago and he promised to change. Now he curses at them all the time. I need help. How can I get him to see a doctor? He is getting progressively worse!
Also, how can I get him to trust me again? I'm hoping someone who's been there can answer my last question and if possible tell me what it's like, so I can better manage living with him. I love him and not want to leave, but his constant embarrassments, lies, and abusing me to neighbors is starting to kill me. [/QUOTE

Hi, you're not alone. A couple of years go i went through something similar to your situation. He has since been to jail and back. Not being educated and able to cope with the illness at the time i divorced him. He recently gotten out of jail and we wanted to try and work thiigs ut because we figured 22 years is a lot to give up on. I would let him stay a couple of days and he would stay at his sister. The problem come when he think a coupl of guards and Android inmated associated with gangs followed him home on a bus to spy on him. He thinks these people are paying his sister to.put a speaker chip as he call it in her mouth to tell them evrry were he goes and what he is doing. He thinks these people is telling people bad things about him so he can't find a job or even have friends. He feels they are follwing him around but don' show their face. He thinks that i have allowed these people tp place hidden cameras in my house to spy on him. We have gotten into arguments and i have gotten stress over this. I tried to explain to him whats going on with him but he thinks theses people is making me believe that by lying to me. He gets so angry because he thinks i'm listening to him. The sad part is his family is so consumed wiyh drugs and alcohol tyey refuse to get him help. Instead they kicked him out on the streets. He can't stay with me because my lease does not allow me to have anyone other than me and my child. I'm constantly worried about him, but before the divorce he accused me just like your husband ding to you. Its hard to live witu someone like that. Best thing to do is read as much as you can about it. Call your local mental clinic for help on how to deal wih his situation. If he is fighting people and is a threat, you can have him admitted to the emergency room for evaluation or even the police. You to find out what the laws say concerning this matter. My advise hat ibgotten from a friend who has a family member is this, this can become very stressful and you can only do so much because he is Android adult, don't loose yourself in this and remeber to take care of "you",especially f you have chilren. Hope this help and keep in touch with me, i have not yiven up yet.